Really enjoyed reading your bio, CAPPYTAN!
I think the "tight pants" event was a turning point for not a few people.
Up to that point, my wife had been on the fence, or in a state of "what if they are right?" The zone visit put her doubts to rest. . . .
She also came home from the meeting and googled Anthony Morris. . . . and read EVERYTHING. "Who is this guy? Who the hell does he think he is?"
In her googling she came across jwsurvey.com and I said, "Honey, just to let you know, that is definitely an apostate site. . . . "
"I don't care!"
That was a turning point for me too. After that, I told my wife I'm done. Bye-bye meetings. That was my last one. (I did go to the memorial out of respect for my inlaws)